Am primit \u00eentrebarea asta de la voi: „\ud835\udc36\ud835\udc5c\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc56, \ud835\udc51\ud835\udc4e\ud835\udc5f \ud835\udc35\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc4f\ud835\udc59\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc4e \ud835\udc60\ud835\udc5d\ud835\udc62\ud835\udc5b\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc50\ud835\udc4e\u0306 \ud835\udc56\u0302\ud835\udc5b \ud835\udc5a\ud835\udc62\ud835\udc59\ud835\udc61\u0326\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc5a\ud835\udc52\ud835\udc4e \ud835\udc51\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc60\ud835\udc53\ud835\udc52\ud835\udc61\ud835\udc5b\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc50\ud835\udc56 \ud835\udc52\ud835\udc60\ud835\udc61\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc4f\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc62\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc5b\ud835\udc61\u0326\ud835\udc4e\u2026 \ud835\udc51\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc50\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc5b\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc61\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc5a\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc61\u0326\ud835\udc56 \ud835\udc59\ud835\udc4e \ud835\udc52\ud835\udc65\ud835\udc5d\ud835\udc52\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc61\u0326\ud835\udc56 \ud835\udc60\u0326\ud835\udc56 \ud835\udc5b\ud835\udc62 \ud835\udc59\ud835\udc4e \ud835\udc59\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc51\ud835\udc52\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc56 \ud835\udc60\ud835\udc4e\ud835\udc62 \ud835\udc60\ud835\udc62\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc5c\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc59\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc51\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc5b \ud835\udc4f\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc60\ud835\udc52\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc50\ud835\udc4e\u0306?”<\/p>\n
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\ud835\udc02\ud835\udc04\ud835\udc00 \ud835\udc0c\ud835\udc00\ud835\udc08 \ud835\udc0c\ud835\udc00\ud835\udc11\ud835\udc04 \ud835\udc02\ud835\udc0e\ud835\udc0d\ud835\udc05\ud835\udc14\ud835\udc19\ud835\udc08\ud835\udc04: \ud835\udc12\ud835\udc05\ud835\udc00\ud835\udc13 \ud835\udc15\ud835\udc12 \ud835\udc0f\ud835\udc11\ud835\udc0e\ud835\udc08\ud835\udc04\ud835\udc02\ud835\udc13\u0326\ud835\udc08\ud835\udc04<\/p>\n
Biblia vorbe\u0219te despre mul\u021bimea de sfetnici, nu despre mul\u021bimea de p\u0103reri. C\u00e2nd ceri ajutorul unei prietene sau unei „surori”, de cele mai multe ori prime\u0219ti o proiec\u021bie a h\u0103r\u021bii ei mentale:
\u2022\u2060 \u2060”Eu a\u0219a a\u0219 face…”
\u2022\u2060 \u2060”La mine a mers s\u0103 tac…”
\u2022\u2060 \u2060”Rabd\u0103, c\u0103 a\u0219a e crucea ta\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
Asta oricum nu e sf\u0103tuire. E CONDAMNARE.
Dup\u0103 8 ani de lucru cu femei din toate col\u021burile lumii, v\u0103 spun clar ce v\u0103d de fiecare data, si anume ca fiecare d\u0103 sfaturi din harta lui mental\u0103, nu din realitatea TA.<\/p>\n
B\u0103rba\u021bii sunt diferi\u021bi.
R\u0103nile sunt diferite.
Triggerii sunt diferi\u021bi.
Tu NU e\u0219ti prietena ta.
Rela\u021bia ta NU e rela\u021bia ei.<\/p>\n
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Spun cu toat\u0103 responsabilitatea ca nu orice mediu cre\u0219tin este unul s\u0103n\u0103tos. Am avut cliente care au ajuns la mine cu ulcer, boli autoimune \u0219i chiar cancer, dup\u0103 20 de ani \u00een care au ascultat:
\u2022\u2060 \u2060”Mai rabd\u0103.”
\u2022\u2060 \u2060”Roag\u0103-te mai mult \u0219i o s\u0103 se schimbe.”
\u2022\u2060 \u2060”Dumnezeu ur\u0103\u0219te divor\u021bul (deci tu accept\u0103 abuzul).”<\/p>\n
Pio\u0219enia ta NU \u00eel va schimba. Nu mai permite s\u01ce \u021bi se bage \u00een cap c\u01ce Dumnezeu nu folose\u0219te abuzul ca instrument de sfin\u021bire. Suferin\u021ba ta nu este moned\u0103 de schimb pentru m\u00e2ntuirea lui. C\u00e2nd ne apucam s\u01ce spiritualizam abuzul, toxicitatea, narcisismul, nici m\u0103car nu mai vorbim de adev\u0103r biblic, ci de distorsiune spiritual\u0103.<\/p>\n
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De aceea ador mentoratul si ceea ce face Dumnezeu cu clientele mele.<\/p>\n
\u00cen mentorat, apropo, nu se dau sfaturi si nu facem \u0219ez\u0103toare la cafea.<\/p>\n
\u00cen program, lucr\u0103m cu discern\u0103m\u00e2nt aplicat:
1.\u2060 \u2060Analiz\u0103m dinamica real\u0103, nu pove\u0219tile pe care \u021bi le spui.
2.\u2060 \u2060Identific\u0103m tiparele de codependen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i victimizare.
3.\u2060 \u2060Urm\u01cem direc\u021bia, pa\u0219ii \u0219i tool-urile potrivite doar \u021aIE, nu ce a\u0219 face eu, ce cred eu, sau ce ar trebui.<\/p>\n
\u0218tii care e adev\u0103rata „mul\u021bime de sfetnici\u201d? Sunt oamenii cu autoritate real\u0103, care cunosc \u0219i Scriptura, dar \u0219i psihologia din spatele comportamentului uman.<\/p>\n
Oameni care te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 vezi adev\u0103rul, nu s\u0103-\u021bi bandajeze o ran\u01ce care s\u00e2ngereaz\u0103 cu un plasture de rug\u0103ciune.<\/p>\n
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\u2013 da, sfatul biblic e vital
\u2013 nu, orice \u201esfat cre\u0219tin\u201d e biblic
\u2013 rela\u021biile nu se repar\u0103 cu p\u0103reri
\u2013 Dumnezeu nu te cheam\u0103 s\u0103 te pierzi ca s\u0103 dovede\u0219ti credin\u021b\u0103
Te cheam\u0103 la adev\u0103r \u0219i la rela\u021bii care nu te distrug pe interior.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
S\u0103 ceri sfaturi de la toat\u0103 lumea e cea mai sigur\u0103 ca s\u0103-\u021bi \u00eengropi rela\u021bia Am primit \u00eentrebarea asta de la voi: „\ud835\udc36\ud835\udc5c\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc56, \ud835\udc51\ud835\udc4e\ud835\udc5f \ud835\udc35\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc4f\ud835\udc59\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc4e \ud835\udc60\ud835\udc5d\ud835\udc62\ud835\udc5b\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc50\ud835\udc4e\u0306 \ud835\udc56\u0302\ud835\udc5b \ud835\udc5a\ud835\udc62\ud835\udc59\ud835\udc61\u0326\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc5a\ud835\udc52\ud835\udc4e \ud835\udc51\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc60\ud835\udc53\ud835\udc52\ud835\udc61\ud835\udc5b\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc50\ud835\udc56 \ud835\udc52\ud835\udc60\ud835\udc61\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc4f\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc62\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc5b\ud835\udc61\u0326\ud835\udc4e\u2026 \ud835\udc51\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc50\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc5b\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc61\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc5a\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc61\u0326\ud835\udc56 \ud835\udc59\ud835\udc4e \ud835\udc52\ud835\udc65\ud835\udc5d\ud835\udc52\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc61\u0326\ud835\udc56 \ud835\udc60\u0326\ud835\udc56 \ud835\udc5b\ud835\udc62 \ud835\udc59\ud835\udc4e \ud835\udc59\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc51\ud835\udc52\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc56 \ud835\udc60\ud835\udc4e\ud835\udc62 \ud835\udc60\ud835\udc62\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc5c\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc59\ud835\udc52 \ud835\udc51\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc5b \ud835\udc4f\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc60\ud835\udc52\ud835\udc5f\ud835\udc56\ud835\udc50\ud835\udc4e\u0306?” \ud835\udc04 \ud835\udc28 \ud835\udc1d\ud835\udc22\ud835\udc1f\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc2b\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc27\ud835\udc2d\u0326\ud835\udc1a\u0306 \ud835\udc2e\ud835\udc2b\ud835\udc22\ud835\udc1a\ud835\udc2c\u0326\ud835\udc1a\u0306 \ud835\udc22\u0302\ud835\udc27\ud835\udc2d\ud835\udc2b\ud835\udc1e \ud835\udc1a \ud835\udc1a\ud835\udc2f\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc1a \ud835\udc2c\ud835\udc1f\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc2d\ud835\udc27\ud835\udc22\ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc22 \ud835\udc2c\u0326\ud835\udc22 \ud835\udc1a \ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc28\ud835\udc25\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc2d\u0326\ud835\udc22\ud835\udc28\ud835\udc27\ud835\udc1a \ud835\udc29\ud835\udc2b\ud835\udc28\ud835\udc22\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc2d\u0326\ud835\udc22\ud835\udc22 \ud835\udc1d\ud835\udc1e \ud835\udc25\ud835\udc1a \ud835\udc28\ud835\udc1a\ud835\udc26\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc27\ud835\udc22 \ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc1a\ud835\udc2b\ud835\udc1e \ud835\udc2c\ud835\udc1e \ud835\udc22\u0302\ud835\udc27\ud835\udc2f\ud835\udc1a\u0302\ud835\udc2b\ud835\udc2d \ud835\udc22\u0302\ud835\udc27 \ud835\udc1a\ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc25\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc1a\ud835\udc2c\u0326\ud835\udc22 \ud835\udc2d\ud835\udc2b\ud835\udc1a\ud835\udc2e\ud835\udc26\ud835\udc1e \ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc1a \ud835\udc2c\u0326\ud835\udc22 \ud835\udc2d\ud835\udc22\ud835\udc27\ud835\udc1e. \ud835\udc02\ud835\udc04\ud835\udc00 \ud835\udc0c\ud835\udc00\ud835\udc08 \ud835\udc0c\ud835\udc00\ud835\udc11\ud835\udc04 \ud835\udc02\ud835\udc0e\ud835\udc0d\ud835\udc05\ud835\udc14\ud835\udc19\ud835\udc08\ud835\udc04: \ud835\udc12\ud835\udc05\ud835\udc00\ud835\udc13 \ud835\udc15\ud835\udc12 \ud835\udc0f\ud835\udc11\ud835\udc0e\ud835\udc08\ud835\udc04\ud835\udc02\ud835\udc13\u0326\ud835\udc08\ud835\udc04 Biblia vorbe\u0219te despre mul\u021bimea de sfetnici, nu despre mul\u021bimea de p\u0103reri. C\u00e2nd ceri ajutorul unei prietene sau unei „surori”, de cele mai multe ori prime\u0219ti o proiec\u021bie a h\u0103r\u021bii ei mentale:\u2022\u2060 \u2060”Eu a\u0219a a\u0219 face…”\u2022\u2060 \u2060”La mine a mers s\u0103 tac…”\u2022\u2060 \u2060”Rabd\u0103, c\u0103 a\u0219a e crucea ta\u2026\u201d Asta oricum nu e sf\u0103tuire. E CONDAMNARE.Dup\u0103 8 ani de lucru cu femei din toate col\u021burile lumii, v\u0103 spun clar ce v\u0103d de fiecare data, si anume ca fiecare d\u0103 sfaturi din harta lui mental\u0103, nu din realitatea TA. B\u0103rba\u021bii sunt diferi\u021bi.R\u0103nile sunt diferite.Triggerii sunt diferi\u021bi.Tu NU e\u0219ti prietena ta.Rela\u021bia ta NU e rela\u021bia ei. \ud835\udc00\ud835\udc1d\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc2f\ud835\udc1a\u0306\ud835\udc2b\ud835\udc2e\ud835\udc25 \ud835\udc22\ud835\udc27\ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc28\ud835\udc26\ud835\udc28\ud835\udc1d \ud835\udc1d\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc2c\ud835\udc29\ud835\udc2b\ud835\udc1e \ud835\udc26\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc1d\ud835\udc22\ud835\udc2e\ud835\udc25 \ud835\udc1b\ud835\udc22\ud835\udc2c\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc2b\ud835\udc22\ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc2c\ud835\udc1c Spun cu toat\u0103 responsabilitatea ca nu orice mediu cre\u0219tin este unul s\u0103n\u0103tos. Am avut cliente care au ajuns la mine cu ulcer, boli autoimune \u0219i chiar cancer, dup\u0103 20 de ani \u00een care au ascultat:\u2022\u2060 \u2060”Mai rabd\u0103.”\u2022\u2060 \u2060”Roag\u0103-te mai mult \u0219i o s\u0103 se schimbe.”\u2022\u2060 \u2060”Dumnezeu ur\u0103\u0219te divor\u021bul (deci tu accept\u0103 abuzul).” Pio\u0219enia ta NU \u00eel va schimba. Nu mai permite s\u01ce \u021bi se bage \u00een cap c\u01ce Dumnezeu nu folose\u0219te abuzul ca instrument de sfin\u021bire. Suferin\u021ba ta nu este moned\u0103 de schimb pentru m\u00e2ntuirea lui. C\u00e2nd ne apucam s\u01ce spiritualizam abuzul, toxicitatea, narcisismul, nici m\u0103car nu mai vorbim de adev\u0103r biblic, ci de distorsiune spiritual\u0103. \ud835\udc03\ud835\udc1e \ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc1e \ud835\udc0c\ud835\udc04\ud835\udc0d\ud835\udc13\ud835\udc0e\ud835\udc11\ud835\udc00\ud835\udc13\ud835\udc14\ud835\udc0b \ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc2c\ud835\udc2d\ud835\udc1e \ud835\udc1a\ud835\udc25\ud835\udc2d\ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc2f\ud835\udc1a De aceea ador mentoratul si ceea ce face Dumnezeu cu clientele mele. \u00cen mentorat, apropo, nu se dau sfaturi si nu facem \u0219ez\u0103toare la cafea. \u00cen program, lucr\u0103m cu discern\u0103m\u00e2nt aplicat:1.\u2060 \u2060Analiz\u0103m dinamica real\u0103, nu pove\u0219tile pe care \u021bi le spui.2.\u2060 \u2060Identific\u0103m tiparele de codependen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i victimizare.3.\u2060 \u2060Urm\u01cem direc\u021bia, pa\u0219ii \u0219i tool-urile potrivite doar \u021aIE, nu ce a\u0219 face eu, ce cred eu, sau ce ar trebui. \u0218tii care e adev\u0103rata „mul\u021bime de sfetnici\u201d? Sunt oamenii cu autoritate real\u0103, care cunosc \u0219i Scriptura, dar \u0219i psihologia din spatele comportamentului uman. Oameni care te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 vezi adev\u0103rul, nu s\u0103-\u021bi bandajeze o ran\u01ce care s\u00e2ngereaz\u0103 cu un plasture de rug\u0103ciune. \ud835\udc02\ud835\udc28\ud835\udc27\ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc25\ud835\udc2e\ud835\udc33\ud835\udc22\ud835\udc1a \ud835\udc26\ud835\udc1e\ud835\udc1a, \ud835\udc29\ud835\udc1e \ud835\udc2c\ud835\udc1c\ud835\udc2e\ud835\udc2b\ud835\udc2d:\u2013 da, sfatul biblic e vital\u2013 nu, orice \u201esfat cre\u0219tin\u201d e biblic\u2013 rela\u021biile nu se repar\u0103 cu p\u0103reri\u2013 Dumnezeu nu te cheam\u0103 s\u0103 te pierzi ca s\u0103 dovede\u0219ti credin\u021b\u0103Te cheam\u0103 la adev\u0103r \u0219i la rela\u021bii care nu te distrug pe interior.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13720,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-library"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":8}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13711"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13711\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13720"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13711"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13711"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}