{"id":4019,"date":"2021-06-30T11:34:02","date_gmt":"2021-06-30T11:34:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/?p=1212"},"modified":"2023-11-09T15:20:36","modified_gmt":"2023-11-09T15:20:36","slug":"cum-alergi-dupa-un-barbat-si-nu-iti-dai-seama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/cum-alergi-dupa-un-barbat-si-nu-iti-dai-seama\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum alergi dup\u0103 un b\u0103rbat \u0219i nu \u00ee\u021bi dai seama"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"4019\" class=\"elementor elementor-4019\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-15030bbd elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no wpr-column-slider-no wpr-equal-height-no\" data-id=\"15030bbd\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-413c205b\" data-id=\"413c205b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9347117 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9347117\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tDraga mea, ce \u00een\u021beles are pentru tine cuv\u00e2ntul \u201da alerga dup\u0103 cineva\u201d? Ce imagine vezi \u00een mintea ta c\u00e2nd auzi acest lucru?\n\nEste posibil s\u0103 alergi dup\u0103 un b\u0103rbat \u0219i s\u0103 nu \u0219tii c\u0103 o faci?\n\nDe mici copii, lumea ne educ\u0103 mai degrab\u0103 cum sa NU ne conect\u0103m cu un b\u0103rbat, cum s\u0103 NU avem o rela\u021bie \u00eemplinit\u0103 \u0219i cum sa NU fim fericite. \u0218ocant, nu?\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9c843a4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9c843a4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tNe-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 urm\u0103rim iubirea, a\u0219a cum cum urm\u0103rim listele, to do-urile si targeturile zilnice.\n\nAm \u00eenceput s\u0103 analiz\u0103m, s\u0103 g\u00e2ndim \u0219i s\u0103 pl\u0103nuim rela\u021biile noastre, \u00een loc s\u0103 sim\u021bim.\n\n\u021ai s-a zis de at\u00e2tea ori c\u00e2nd erai mic\u0103 \u201dfii barbat\u0103, nu te mai smiorc\u0103i!\u201d\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-61d84ff9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"61d84ff9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u0218i uite cum am ajuns, noi femeile, s\u0103 c\u0103ut\u0103m iubirea, undeva unde nu o putem g\u0103si niciodat\u0103: \u00een cap \u00een loc de corp (sim\u021buri).<\/p><h2><strong>5 exemple cum alergi incon\u0219tient dup\u0103 un b\u0103rbat <\/strong><\/h2><p><strong>Mesaje siropoase, flirty<\/strong>: Dac\u0103 nu ai auzit de el \u00eentr-o zi, sigur te-ai G\u00c2NDIT ce ai putea s\u0103-i scrii sau cum ai putea formula un mesaj catchy. Ai tastat, ai \u0219ers, apoi iar ai tastat&#8230; \u0219i ai dat send, cu g\u00e2ndul \u201dfie ce-o fi\u201d.<\/p><p><strong>Apeluri zilnice, chiar de mai multe ori pe zi<\/strong>: S\u0103 \u00eel suni frecvent din diverse motive, fie c\u0103 ai auzit la radio melodia voastr\u0103 \u0219i te-ai g\u00e2ndit la el, fie c\u0103 ai auzit de un eveniment \u0219i \u00eei propui s\u0103 merge\u021bi \u0219i voi, fie c\u0103 \u021bi-dor de el.<\/p><p>Mesajele \u0219i apelurile repetitive \u0219i frecvente, sunt direct propor\u021bionale cu lipsa lui de interes \u0219i transmit mesajul \u201dheey, sunt aici, ai uitat de mine \u0219i eu m\u0103 perpelesc aici de dorul t\u0103u, nu m\u0103 pot concentra la treburile mele pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 tot g\u00e2ndesc la un milion de lucruri pentru care NU m\u0103 cau\u021bi\u201d<\/p><p><strong>Prea mult interes<\/strong>: Dac\u0103 sim\u021bi o oarecare distan\u021bare, sau un ritm mai lent din partea lui, ai tendin\u021ba s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi ar\u0103\u021bi interesul, prin apeluri, vizite impromptu, mesaje \u00een miez de noapte, cadouri \u0219i surprize etc. Sub masca \u201dm\u0103 interesez de tine\u201d, st\u0103 de fapt \u201ddac\u0103 nu fac eu ceva, se duce totul de r\u00e2p\u0103\u201d.<\/p><p><strong>Control<\/strong> <strong>freak<\/strong>: insecurit\u0103\u021bile din subcon\u0219tientul t\u0103u nu te las\u0103 s\u0103 te relaxezi l\u00e2ng\u0103 b\u0103rbat \u0219i mereu te pun \u00een gard\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eel cau\u021bi, s\u0103 \u00eel investighezi, s\u0103 verifici c\u00e2nd a fost online, prin ce story-uri e t\u0103guit, cu cine a ie\u0219it, oare \u00eentr-adev\u0103r a fost unde a zis ca a fost \u0219amd. Acest lucru culmineaz\u0103 cu \u00eentreb\u0103rile (Unde ai fost, Cu cine esti, C\u00e2nd vii) care \u00eel pun la zid \u0219i \u00eei fur\u0103 singurul lucru care \u00eel face s\u0103 se simt\u0103 bine \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie: senza\u021bia de libertate.<\/p><p><strong>A-i face pe plac tot timpul<\/strong>: dac\u0103 te spete\u0219ti cu g\u0103titul, aten\u021bie excesiv\u0103, \u00eei vii \u00een \u00eent\u00e2mpinare cu toate lucrurile, dac\u0103 treci peste dorin\u021bele tale \u0219i te conformezi doar la ce \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te el, de fapt, nu \u00eel aju\u021bi deloc s\u0103 se conecteze cu tine, ci din contr\u0103, \u00eel pui pe fug\u0103.<\/p><p><strong>\u00centrebarea \u201dDe ce nu m-ai sunat azi?\u201d<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>\u00centrebarea \u201dCe sim\u021bi pentru mine? Cum vezi tu rela\u021bia noastr\u0103?\u201d<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>Afec\u021biunea fizic\u0103 \u00een exces: <\/strong>c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi vine, pur \u0219i simplu, s\u0103 te arunci asupra lui, s\u0103 \u00eei iei capul \u00eentre m\u00e2ini, s\u0103 \u00eel giugiule\u0219ti, s\u0103 \u00eel alin\u021bi, s\u0103 \u00eel umpli cu s\u0103rut\u0103ri. El vrea s\u0103 fie b\u0103rbatul, nu c\u0103\u021belu\u0219ul t\u0103u.<\/p><h2><strong>Ce \u00een\u021beleg b\u0103rba\u021bii<\/strong><\/h2><p>Toate aceste comportamente par normale \u0219i nevinovate. Tu doar vrei s\u0103 te ar\u0103\u021bi prietenoas\u0103 \u0219i interesat\u0103, nu-i a\u0219a?<\/p><p>Ei bine, pentru un b\u0103rbat toate acestea au \u00een\u021belesuri diferite. El le resimte ca pe o presiune, lips\u0103 de libertate \u0219i control.<\/p><p>Mai mult, c\u00e2nd un b\u0103rbat vede c\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 te \u00eendrep\u021bi spre el, va sim\u021bi nevoia s\u0103 dea \u00eenapoi \u0219i s\u0103 fug\u0103 de tine. Energia ta \u00eendreptat\u0103 spre el nu are efect de apropiere, ci de respingere (exact ca la magne\u021bi).<\/p><p>De asemenea, c\u00e2nd el observ\u0103 c\u0103 \u00eel faci centrul universului t\u0103u, c\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti \u0219i ac\u021bionezi obsesiv pentru a-i atrage aten\u021bia, el va percepe acest lucru ca pe o nesiguran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i lips\u0103 de \u00eencredere \u00een tine.<\/p><p>Un alt lucru pe care el \u00eel \u00een\u021belege din aceste comportamente aparent inocente este frica ta de a \u00eel pierde, frica de singur\u0103tate. Poate c\u0103 la \u00eenceput se va sim\u021bi m\u0103gulit, dar cu timpul, garantat i se va stinge atrac\u021bia. Va avea impresia c\u0103 dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi e fric\u0103 s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i singur\u0103, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 tu nu te po\u021bi accepta; atunci cum \u00eel vei accepta pe el?<\/p><h2><strong>Capcana \u00een care e\u0219ti prins\u0103 atunci c\u0103nd alergi dup\u0103 un b\u0103rbat<\/strong><\/h2><p>Ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi place at\u00e2t de mult de cineva \u00eenc\u00e2t te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti doar la urm\u0103toarea ocazie de a fi \u00eempreun\u0103? Oferi ceva pre\u021bios: timp. Prea mult timp.<\/p><p>Ajungi s\u0103 petreci foarte mult timp \u0219i s\u0103 devii intim\u0103 cu un b\u0103rbat de care te-ai \u00eendr\u0103gostit, f\u0103r\u0103 ca el s\u0103 simt\u0103 acela\u0219i av\u00e2nt, \u00een acela\u0219i ritm. Ajungi s\u0103 te autoinvi\u021bi \u00een prezen\u021ba lui, \u00een casa lui, \u00een ma\u0219ina lui, \u00een grupul de prieteni \u0219i s\u0103 te introduci \u00een fiecare col\u021bi\u0219or al vie\u021bii lui.<\/p><p>Ce se \u00eentampl\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00eei oferi prea mult timp unui b\u0103rbat? Vei deveni ata\u0219at\u0103 emo\u021bional prea devreme. Vei sim\u021bi nevoia ca leg\u0103tura voastr\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenainteze mai rapid.<\/p><p>Ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 c\u00e2n devii prea ata\u0219at\u0103 emo\u021bional? \u00cencepi s\u0103 pui presiune. S\u0103 controlezi.<\/p><p>Rezultatul: b\u0103rbatul se \u00eendep\u0103rteaz\u0103 sau chiar dispare.<\/p><h2><strong>Ce po\u021bi face pentru a te conecta cu un b\u0103rbat<\/strong><\/h2><p>Care este remediul tuturor situa\u021biilor c\u00e2nd te surprinzi c\u0103 te \u00eenclini \u00eenainte, dup\u0103 un b\u0103rbat?<\/p><p>Da, exact: un pas \u00eenapoi. A te \u00eenclina spre spate. A \u00ee\u021bi p\u0103stra energia.<\/p><p>Un pas \u00een spate la nivel emo\u021bional: a \u00ee\u021bi investi energia \u00een vindecarea emo\u021biilor, \u00een lucrul interior \u0219i nu \u00een a cuceri pe cineva.<\/p><p>Un pas \u00een spate la nivel mental: a \u00ee\u021bi face ordine \u00een g\u00e2nduri, a scutura probabilit\u0103\u021bile, presupunerile, \u00eendoielile. Te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 te eliberezi de anxietate, ner\u0103bdare \u0219i nelini\u0219te.<\/p><p>Un pas \u00een spate la nivel fizic: a crea spa\u021biu \u0219i a observa, c\u00e2t mai deta\u0219at cu putin\u021b\u0103. A avea o via\u021b\u0103 a ta, preocup\u0103rile tale, prietenii t\u0103i, timpul t\u0103u.<\/p><h2><strong>Ce motiveaz\u0103 un b\u0103rbat s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2t mai aproape de tine<\/strong><\/h2><p>Atunci c\u00e2nd un b\u0103rbat \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219te o femeie care se concentreaz\u0103 pe ea, care \u00eei ofer\u0103 spa\u021biu,\u00a0 care nu \u00eel v\u00e2neaz\u0103, se va sim\u021bi liber \u0219i acceptat a\u0219a cum este, ceea ce este extrem de atr\u0103g\u0103tor pentru el.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-091e5e7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-eael-testimonial\" data-id=\"091e5e7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"eael-testimonial.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t<div id=\"eael-testimonial-091e5e7\" class=\"eael-testimonial-item clearfix  content-top-icon-title-inline\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"eael-testimonial-content eael-testimonial-inline-bio\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bio-text\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"eael-testimonial-content\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"eael-testimonial-text\">O femeie \u00een energie feminin\u0103 nu alearg\u0103, ci inspir\u0103 un b\u0103rbat s\u0103 se simt\u0103 bine cu ea \u0219i s\u0103 se apropie de ea.<\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t<span class=\"eael-testimonial-quote\"><\/span>\n\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-636bdd7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"636bdd7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tO femeie \u00een energie feminin\u0103 nu alearg\u0103, ci inspir\u0103 un b\u0103rbat s\u0103 se simt\u0103 bine cu ea \u0219i s\u0103 se apropie de ea.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d4be8ae elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d4be8ae\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u0218tiu c\u0103 pare greu s\u0103 a\u0219tep\u021bi ca el s\u0103 preia fr\u00e2iele.<\/p><p>Stiu c\u00e2t de frustrant este s\u0103 nu-\u021bi mai ar\u0103\u021bi interesul at\u00e2t de des.<\/p><p>Dar, c\u00e2nd el va vedea c\u0103 tu e\u0219ti sigur\u0103 pe tine, c\u0103 nu ai nevoie de valid\u0103ri externe, c\u0103 e\u0219ti deja fericit\u0103 \u0219i nu \u00eel p\u00e2nde\u0219ti \/ v\u00e2nezi, va \u0219ti imediat c\u0103 are dou\u0103 op\u021biuni: s\u0103 vin\u0103 spre tine \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi ofere angajament sau o va face altcineva.<\/p><p>\u00ce\u021bi recomand programul video <a href=\"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/produs\/ready-for-love\/\">Preg\u0103tit\u0103 s\u0103 iubesc<\/a>, care \u00ee\u021bi va ar\u0103ta, pas cu pas, cum s\u0103 te iube\u0219ti, cum s\u0103 fii feminin\u0103 \u0219i cum s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi exprimi emo\u021biile \u00een mod autentic, pentru a fi adorat\u0103 \u00een rela\u021bia ta.<\/p><p>Cu tot dragul,<\/p><p>                <div class=\"ml-form-embed\"\n                     data-account=\"3857537:c3a4t0g5h5\"\n                     data-form=\"5842462:d2d0s2\">\n                <\/div>\n            <\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Draga mea, ce \u00een\u021beles are pentru tine cuv\u00e2ntul \u201da alerga dup\u0103 cineva\u201d? Ce imagine vezi \u00een mintea ta c\u00e2nd auzi acest lucru? Este posibil s\u0103 alergi dup\u0103 un b\u0103rbat \u0219i s\u0103 nu \u0219tii c\u0103 o faci? De mici copii, lumea ne educ\u0103 mai degrab\u0103 cum sa NU ne conect\u0103m cu un b\u0103rbat, cum s\u0103 NU avem o rela\u021bie \u00eemplinit\u0103 \u0219i cum sa NU fim fericite. \u0218ocant, nu?Ne-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 urm\u0103rim iubirea, a\u0219a cum cum urm\u0103rim listele, to do-urile si targeturile zilnice. Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 analiz\u0103m, s\u0103 g\u00e2ndim \u0219i s\u0103 pl\u0103nuim rela\u021biile noastre, \u00een loc s\u0103 sim\u021bim. \u021ai s-a zis de at\u00e2tea ori c\u00e2nd erai mic\u0103 \u201dfii barbat\u0103, nu te mai smiorc\u0103i!\u201d \u0218i uite cum am ajuns, noi femeile, s\u0103 c\u0103ut\u0103m iubirea, undeva unde nu o putem g\u0103si niciodat\u0103: \u00een cap \u00een loc de corp (sim\u021buri). 5 exemple cum alergi incon\u0219tient dup\u0103 un b\u0103rbat Mesaje siropoase, flirty: Dac\u0103 nu ai auzit de el \u00eentr-o zi, sigur te-ai G\u00c2NDIT ce ai putea s\u0103-i scrii sau cum ai putea formula un mesaj catchy. Ai tastat, ai \u0219ers, apoi iar ai tastat&#8230; \u0219i ai dat send, cu g\u00e2ndul \u201dfie ce-o fi\u201d. Apeluri zilnice, chiar de mai multe ori pe zi: S\u0103 \u00eel suni frecvent din diverse motive, fie c\u0103 ai auzit la radio melodia voastr\u0103 \u0219i te-ai g\u00e2ndit la el, fie c\u0103 ai auzit de un eveniment \u0219i \u00eei propui s\u0103 merge\u021bi \u0219i voi, fie c\u0103 \u021bi-dor de el. Mesajele \u0219i apelurile repetitive \u0219i frecvente, sunt direct propor\u021bionale cu lipsa lui de interes \u0219i transmit mesajul \u201dheey, sunt aici, ai uitat de mine \u0219i eu m\u0103 perpelesc aici de dorul t\u0103u, nu m\u0103 pot concentra la treburile mele pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 tot g\u00e2ndesc la un milion de lucruri pentru care NU m\u0103 cau\u021bi\u201d Prea mult interes: Dac\u0103 sim\u021bi o oarecare distan\u021bare, sau un ritm mai lent din partea lui, ai tendin\u021ba s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi ar\u0103\u021bi interesul, prin apeluri, vizite impromptu, mesaje \u00een miez de noapte, cadouri \u0219i surprize etc. Sub masca \u201dm\u0103 interesez de tine\u201d, st\u0103 de fapt \u201ddac\u0103 nu fac eu ceva, se duce totul de r\u00e2p\u0103\u201d. Control freak: insecurit\u0103\u021bile din subcon\u0219tientul t\u0103u nu te las\u0103 s\u0103 te relaxezi l\u00e2ng\u0103 b\u0103rbat \u0219i mereu te pun \u00een gard\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eel cau\u021bi, s\u0103 \u00eel investighezi, s\u0103 verifici c\u00e2nd a fost online, prin ce story-uri e t\u0103guit, cu cine a ie\u0219it, oare \u00eentr-adev\u0103r a fost unde a zis ca a fost \u0219amd. Acest lucru culmineaz\u0103 cu \u00eentreb\u0103rile (Unde ai fost, Cu cine esti, C\u00e2nd vii) care \u00eel pun la zid \u0219i \u00eei fur\u0103 singurul lucru care \u00eel face s\u0103 se simt\u0103 bine \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie: senza\u021bia de libertate. A-i face pe plac tot timpul: dac\u0103 te spete\u0219ti cu g\u0103titul, aten\u021bie excesiv\u0103, \u00eei vii \u00een \u00eent\u00e2mpinare cu toate lucrurile, dac\u0103 treci peste dorin\u021bele tale \u0219i te conformezi doar la ce \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te el, de fapt, nu \u00eel aju\u021bi deloc s\u0103 se conecteze cu tine, ci din contr\u0103, \u00eel pui pe fug\u0103. \u00centrebarea \u201dDe ce nu m-ai sunat azi?\u201d \u00centrebarea \u201dCe sim\u021bi pentru mine? Cum vezi tu rela\u021bia noastr\u0103?\u201d Afec\u021biunea fizic\u0103 \u00een exces: c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi vine, pur \u0219i simplu, s\u0103 te arunci asupra lui, s\u0103 \u00eei iei capul \u00eentre m\u00e2ini, s\u0103 \u00eel giugiule\u0219ti, s\u0103 \u00eel alin\u021bi, s\u0103 \u00eel umpli cu s\u0103rut\u0103ri. El vrea s\u0103 fie b\u0103rbatul, nu c\u0103\u021belu\u0219ul t\u0103u. Ce \u00een\u021beleg b\u0103rba\u021bii Toate aceste comportamente par normale \u0219i nevinovate. Tu doar vrei s\u0103 te ar\u0103\u021bi prietenoas\u0103 \u0219i interesat\u0103, nu-i a\u0219a? Ei bine, pentru un b\u0103rbat toate acestea au \u00een\u021belesuri diferite. El le resimte ca pe o presiune, lips\u0103 de libertate \u0219i control. Mai mult, c\u00e2nd un b\u0103rbat vede c\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 te \u00eendrep\u021bi spre el, va sim\u021bi nevoia s\u0103 dea \u00eenapoi \u0219i s\u0103 fug\u0103 de tine. Energia ta \u00eendreptat\u0103 spre el nu are efect de apropiere, ci de respingere (exact ca la magne\u021bi). De asemenea, c\u00e2nd el observ\u0103 c\u0103 \u00eel faci centrul universului t\u0103u, c\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti \u0219i ac\u021bionezi obsesiv pentru a-i atrage aten\u021bia, el va percepe acest lucru ca pe o nesiguran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i lips\u0103 de \u00eencredere \u00een tine. Un alt lucru pe care el \u00eel \u00een\u021belege din aceste comportamente aparent inocente este frica ta de a \u00eel pierde, frica de singur\u0103tate. Poate c\u0103 la \u00eenceput se va sim\u021bi m\u0103gulit, dar cu timpul, garantat i se va stinge atrac\u021bia. Va avea impresia c\u0103 dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi e fric\u0103 s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i singur\u0103, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 tu nu te po\u021bi accepta; atunci cum \u00eel vei accepta pe el? Capcana \u00een care e\u0219ti prins\u0103 atunci c\u0103nd alergi dup\u0103 un b\u0103rbat Ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi place at\u00e2t de mult de cineva \u00eenc\u00e2t te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti doar la urm\u0103toarea ocazie de a fi \u00eempreun\u0103? Oferi ceva pre\u021bios: timp. Prea mult timp. Ajungi s\u0103 petreci foarte mult timp \u0219i s\u0103 devii intim\u0103 cu un b\u0103rbat de care te-ai \u00eendr\u0103gostit, f\u0103r\u0103 ca el s\u0103 simt\u0103 acela\u0219i av\u00e2nt, \u00een acela\u0219i ritm. Ajungi s\u0103 te autoinvi\u021bi \u00een prezen\u021ba lui, \u00een casa lui, \u00een ma\u0219ina lui, \u00een grupul de prieteni \u0219i s\u0103 te introduci \u00een fiecare col\u021bi\u0219or al vie\u021bii lui. Ce se \u00eentampl\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00eei oferi prea mult timp unui b\u0103rbat? Vei deveni ata\u0219at\u0103 emo\u021bional prea devreme. Vei sim\u021bi nevoia ca leg\u0103tura voastr\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenainteze mai rapid. Ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 c\u00e2n devii prea ata\u0219at\u0103 emo\u021bional? \u00cencepi s\u0103 pui presiune. S\u0103 controlezi. Rezultatul: b\u0103rbatul se \u00eendep\u0103rteaz\u0103 sau chiar dispare. Ce po\u021bi face pentru a te conecta cu un b\u0103rbat Care este remediul tuturor situa\u021biilor c\u00e2nd te surprinzi c\u0103 te \u00eenclini \u00eenainte, dup\u0103 un b\u0103rbat? Da, exact: un pas \u00eenapoi. A te \u00eenclina spre spate. A \u00ee\u021bi p\u0103stra energia. Un pas \u00een spate la nivel emo\u021bional: a \u00ee\u021bi investi energia \u00een vindecarea emo\u021biilor, \u00een lucrul interior \u0219i nu \u00een a cuceri pe cineva. Un pas \u00een spate la nivel mental: a \u00ee\u021bi face ordine \u00een g\u00e2nduri, a scutura probabilit\u0103\u021bile, presupunerile, \u00eendoielile. Te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 te eliberezi de anxietate, ner\u0103bdare \u0219i nelini\u0219te. Un pas \u00een spate la nivel fizic: a crea spa\u021biu \u0219i a observa, c\u00e2t mai deta\u0219at cu putin\u021b\u0103. A avea o via\u021b\u0103 a ta, preocup\u0103rile tale, prietenii t\u0103i, timpul t\u0103u. Ce motiveaz\u0103 un b\u0103rbat s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2t mai aproape de tine Atunci<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7524,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4019","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relatii"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":8}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4019","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4019"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4019\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7524"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4019"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4019"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.corinaimbisi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4019"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}